We often hear from women: He's just sexy egotist! But underlying the need to understand: the thinks only of himself, in my experience he does not care, believe myself to blame, that do not orgasm ... How do these conversations - is understandable. Men in fact are arranged so that the receipt of an orgasm - it is the inevitable finale of their sex. As for women, then they are not as clear. Statistics show that only 40% of women do experience orgasm. And yet, whether blame the men selfish? And is it really so bad if we think, be selfish in bed?
Orgasm selfish
Orgasm as the highest manifestation of pleasure by its nature is selfish. Is it possible to experience pleasure without thinking about himself, not for ourselves? Moreover, if you do not care that it's fun to you, so it will be a party. Perhaps that is why many women do not experience orgasm.
A mistake to believe that an orgasm - it is the feeling to which a woman must bring a man, and he, you know (see above), thinks only of himself. First, nobody owed nothing to anybody - this is a general concept of life. And, secondly, it is impossible to reach the goal, if not go to her most, and vykladyvayas in full. Greatest feelings arise only when he is actively enabled the process - well, so nature works.
Being selfish in bed - it means to have multiple orgasms required for the onset of desires:
-Wanting Sex
-Wanting a partner
-Wanting to orgasm
Agree, it is quite natural, not reprehensible selfishness.
Men - "for"!
What the statistics show? Healthy Women's selfishness in bed, men are welcome. For selfish woman for sex will behave sexually active. It will be proactive and set free, will agree on various experiments, it will be ready to make love anytime, anywhere, and very often, and no matter what. Who of the men against such behavior? This is not a woman, but just a dream!
And the main thing. Woman having sex out of altruism, for the pleasure of a partner can be compared with sex-robot does not claiming reciprocity. But whatever may be said about male selfishness, men still important to meet the woman. A woman, configured to your own pleasure, and, therefore, receive it, gives the man a new impulse for stimulation and reinforces his orgasm. That's a vicious circle of mutual benefits.
Terms literate egoist
In fairness, we must clarify that egoism egoism strife. Or rather, both: being selfish in bed, do not forget that your partner's sexual selfishness, too, must be satisfied. Otherwise, how!
At one time I heard one interesting idea which, in my opinion, entitled to occupy a worthy place in the fount of folk wisdom: "A good sex - is the union of egoists, allowing the bed realized both selfishness." Just noticed, does not it? And if you want to be sexually happy, then this must be learned.
To cite just a few rules that help to be in bed not just selfish, but selfish literate.
1. Do what you enjoy.
2. Learn to enjoy the fact that good partner.
3. Be honest with your partner about your sexual preferences and try to implement all their secret desires.
4. If you do not like something, do not be afraid to say this once, sex - is the exclusive domain of pleasure.
5. I do not be shy.
6. Stay in bed are free and do not set any boundaries, following the principle of advertising: everything you want both, is permissible.
7. Never depicts an orgasm.
8. Do not look for the culprits and not despair if orgasm does not come, everything is decided by time, experience and a great desire.
9. Be flexible in sexual roles, then take the initiative, then take it outside.
10. Learn how to switch off their brains "and receive physical pleasure.
11. Allow yourself some rest from sex, with no discomfort and is not delivering the most uncomfortable partner.
It all comes down to the fact that to be selfish in bed is recommended. But keep in mind (say, to paraphrase a certain wisdom): the boundaries of your selfish ends where begins selfishness partner.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
The sexual life or sex household?
Perhaps this is wrong, but for me the best proof of love - when a man wants me, constantly. I need an organic feel desirable.
Once one of the female user of forums, mostly housewives, have raised the burning topic: how to renew extinguished sexual interest in her husband?
As it turned out, the topic of concern to so many women. I even got the impression recently that women began to want sex more than men.
Judging by the statements in the forums and articles in women's magazines and Internet publications, the man comes home from work the evening tired, exhausted, and he was not up to something - if only to eat, lie down on the couch watching television - and sleep.
Tried all the lotions, sovetuemye Women's Editions - the new hairstyle, plucked eyebrows, playful lingerie, erotic sms during the day - the fact remains - women hesitate to take the initiative!
What's happening?
All 10 years of marriage, I take the initiative in sex. I always had more than her husband. I'm tired to ask, require, take her. And this is despite the fact that I do not nymphomaniac, I also happen during periods of calm, but a woman with a healthy sexual appetite, of course, subject to fluctuations depending on the cycle, mood, fatigue, etc.
I understand in part, that when a police inspector, solicit, from time to time want to say: Leave me alone! But the presence of the desire to have sex for a healthy 30-year-old man - is not the norm?
Then I found a direct relationship between my husband and libido problems and stress at work. That is, when a lot of problems at work, or to what men want and that houses are not pestered with questions and generally lagging behind. Similarly, spoken of libido and other male friends.
A man appeared after her husband, was apparently very similar to it. So, he even took offense, saying - do you see in me only a sex object! I did, they say, not an animal to pounce on you even in the hallway? And what do I do if I want to be assaulted me?
And what is offensive is that I see in man a sex object? And he told me: "I must first talk, talk." During that time, until we have talks about everything and not just talk, I'm blown away and will not burn, as before.
At the forum, women discussed the many opportunities that could spur sexual desire for her man. Intimate haircut, removing all possible hair on the body, relaxing massage and bath, etc. etc.
In the midst of the choir of "Desperate Housewives" one woman shyly as she wrote: "I do not know, my husband wants me to all - in a bathrobe, in trenikah, bald or hairy legs, etc. It is strange to think what happens is, when the husband's wife does not want ... ". And somehow silent. And me and read more rashotelos. It turns out, shave - do not shave, tweeze - do not pull out - the mechanism of desire still depends on something else?
I think so, that initially was paramount, yet libido men, that is, how much sex he basically needed for good health and normal functioning. And it is very important that the libido of a pair coincide. If one is enough 1 time per week by their nature, and one need every day - such a marriage was originally destined to fail. One can only imagine the mind - notice, mind! - Head and share a lot of pluses to find a place with this man and a lot of his virtues - a kind, caring, wonderful family man who does not drink, does not smoke, wife's mother mother calls, etc. - Sooner or later you vzvoete and climb on the wall.
You can explain the attacks of irritability, PMS, magnetic storms and anything - the fact remains - women need sex as well as men, health, wellness and much more.
And at some point you will be not up to social norms and attitudes. Because, as I realized in the end, sex - is as much a natural need of the organism, like eat, drink, sleep.
Imagine that announce immoral to sleep outside the house, but at home you will not give sleep? You hang on the day, the second ... I fall asleep at work. And nothing can do about it, and the brain did not even think about the fact that you are breaking the rules of morality. You just fall asleep. And if you declare it improper to eat outside the home and the house will still not there?
Many, of course, will try to buy sandwiches and cracking them quietly at home when nobody sees. Like and do not violate, but tired of hiding.
Many women in the same way and buy a vibrator when her husband fell asleep, get secret satisfaction. Most of my friends are hidden under the bed vibrators.
In many of my friends families whose husbands gave their wives - that is typical on March 8 - vibrators. And only 1 couple chose and bought a vibrator together for sexual games. How to understand such a gift? Man seems to be saying a woman - amuse herself?
The more I lived in a marriage, the more convinced that the quality and deeply satisfying either sex - one of the most important conditions for a happy marriage. If in this sense, all is well, about everything else can be negotiated. Do not get me wrong, I do not take any extreme positions - for example, completely different social levels, different faith and philosophy, etc. And I do not take the situation where nothing but sexual attraction, does not keep people together, or they were married in his youth, for example, to be able to legally have sex.
When people are good together - they will try to agree to any other areas. In this sense, of course, we come with age to the fact that the mind in sexual attraction still plays a role. And for the emergence of desire is necessary to have been involved and the desire of the mind and the desire of the soul, but not exclusively attracted the body. And, of course, to enhance his libido must still connect the brain.
Think that would stir up such an interesting and how to arrange everything?
And, of course, everything turns out cool, if you like are on the same wavelength - Catch the wishes and feelings of another. Catch happens when you tune into people and sincerely want to do it well. I still very helpful method - do as you want them to do unto you - works perfectly.
But on the other hand, give priority to the mind - also not good. The lack of balance and bias it toward something one - body, mind or soul - also leads to distortion in the relationship. A man who used to life at the top of the mind to put lives on the mind and all analyzes, - respectively, all his sexual desires are subject to analysis. And we go back to the fact that the libido is extremely dependent on problems at work.
Frankly, I think that all the oligarchs - the steep businessmen and various analysts are not active sexual partners, because their brain is constantly packed with deals, stock quotes, dollar collapse, the Dow Jones, etc. This is my personal theory, no matter what do not pretend, but for myself I think that it would be good that the man was closer to nature, чтоли, with healthy instinktamit.
I met the man of my dreams. We have been together for 5 years - we really do not live together, we have no general way of life, but we communicate very closely every day.
I desire for it either - with or without epilation, the makeup or without it, sleepy, cheerful, patient, tear-stained ... In my presence he is not looking at other women. They are not there for him - he did not take his eyes off me. I fall asleep with his "good night, my love" and wake up with "good morning, desirable.
Perhaps it is not right - measure the ratio of men to their degree of its desirability. I do not know how to. But it is important. This gives me confidence in her feminine attractiveness. The need to feel like a woman for me - how to breathe.
Expressed my thoughts, of course, not new. Psychologist Nekrasov wrote, that the initial impetus must come from men and the woman he picks up and creates a space of love. And that requires a balanced functioning of the Trinity - Eros, mind and soul.
I was deprived of this impulse. Maybe not felt it, and not words. I do not know. But harmony was not.
Of course, now is the place to be some sort of imbalance - women have become more active and aggressive. And this man's features. Accordingly, the man becomes feminine traits, and as a consequence, what is beginning to behave like a woman - sculpts otmazy that headache, mike and capricious.
Probably I should command a smaller man in life, so he stretched his wings ...
Once one of the female user of forums, mostly housewives, have raised the burning topic: how to renew extinguished sexual interest in her husband?
As it turned out, the topic of concern to so many women. I even got the impression recently that women began to want sex more than men.
Judging by the statements in the forums and articles in women's magazines and Internet publications, the man comes home from work the evening tired, exhausted, and he was not up to something - if only to eat, lie down on the couch watching television - and sleep.
Tried all the lotions, sovetuemye Women's Editions - the new hairstyle, plucked eyebrows, playful lingerie, erotic sms during the day - the fact remains - women hesitate to take the initiative!
What's happening?
All 10 years of marriage, I take the initiative in sex. I always had more than her husband. I'm tired to ask, require, take her. And this is despite the fact that I do not nymphomaniac, I also happen during periods of calm, but a woman with a healthy sexual appetite, of course, subject to fluctuations depending on the cycle, mood, fatigue, etc.
I understand in part, that when a police inspector, solicit, from time to time want to say: Leave me alone! But the presence of the desire to have sex for a healthy 30-year-old man - is not the norm?
Then I found a direct relationship between my husband and libido problems and stress at work. That is, when a lot of problems at work, or to what men want and that houses are not pestered with questions and generally lagging behind. Similarly, spoken of libido and other male friends.
A man appeared after her husband, was apparently very similar to it. So, he even took offense, saying - do you see in me only a sex object! I did, they say, not an animal to pounce on you even in the hallway? And what do I do if I want to be assaulted me?
And what is offensive is that I see in man a sex object? And he told me: "I must first talk, talk." During that time, until we have talks about everything and not just talk, I'm blown away and will not burn, as before.
At the forum, women discussed the many opportunities that could spur sexual desire for her man. Intimate haircut, removing all possible hair on the body, relaxing massage and bath, etc. etc.
In the midst of the choir of "Desperate Housewives" one woman shyly as she wrote: "I do not know, my husband wants me to all - in a bathrobe, in trenikah, bald or hairy legs, etc. It is strange to think what happens is, when the husband's wife does not want ... ". And somehow silent. And me and read more rashotelos. It turns out, shave - do not shave, tweeze - do not pull out - the mechanism of desire still depends on something else?
I think so, that initially was paramount, yet libido men, that is, how much sex he basically needed for good health and normal functioning. And it is very important that the libido of a pair coincide. If one is enough 1 time per week by their nature, and one need every day - such a marriage was originally destined to fail. One can only imagine the mind - notice, mind! - Head and share a lot of pluses to find a place with this man and a lot of his virtues - a kind, caring, wonderful family man who does not drink, does not smoke, wife's mother mother calls, etc. - Sooner or later you vzvoete and climb on the wall.
You can explain the attacks of irritability, PMS, magnetic storms and anything - the fact remains - women need sex as well as men, health, wellness and much more.
And at some point you will be not up to social norms and attitudes. Because, as I realized in the end, sex - is as much a natural need of the organism, like eat, drink, sleep.
Imagine that announce immoral to sleep outside the house, but at home you will not give sleep? You hang on the day, the second ... I fall asleep at work. And nothing can do about it, and the brain did not even think about the fact that you are breaking the rules of morality. You just fall asleep. And if you declare it improper to eat outside the home and the house will still not there?
Many, of course, will try to buy sandwiches and cracking them quietly at home when nobody sees. Like and do not violate, but tired of hiding.
Many women in the same way and buy a vibrator when her husband fell asleep, get secret satisfaction. Most of my friends are hidden under the bed vibrators.
In many of my friends families whose husbands gave their wives - that is typical on March 8 - vibrators. And only 1 couple chose and bought a vibrator together for sexual games. How to understand such a gift? Man seems to be saying a woman - amuse herself?
The more I lived in a marriage, the more convinced that the quality and deeply satisfying either sex - one of the most important conditions for a happy marriage. If in this sense, all is well, about everything else can be negotiated. Do not get me wrong, I do not take any extreme positions - for example, completely different social levels, different faith and philosophy, etc. And I do not take the situation where nothing but sexual attraction, does not keep people together, or they were married in his youth, for example, to be able to legally have sex.
When people are good together - they will try to agree to any other areas. In this sense, of course, we come with age to the fact that the mind in sexual attraction still plays a role. And for the emergence of desire is necessary to have been involved and the desire of the mind and the desire of the soul, but not exclusively attracted the body. And, of course, to enhance his libido must still connect the brain.
Think that would stir up such an interesting and how to arrange everything?
And, of course, everything turns out cool, if you like are on the same wavelength - Catch the wishes and feelings of another. Catch happens when you tune into people and sincerely want to do it well. I still very helpful method - do as you want them to do unto you - works perfectly.
But on the other hand, give priority to the mind - also not good. The lack of balance and bias it toward something one - body, mind or soul - also leads to distortion in the relationship. A man who used to life at the top of the mind to put lives on the mind and all analyzes, - respectively, all his sexual desires are subject to analysis. And we go back to the fact that the libido is extremely dependent on problems at work.
Frankly, I think that all the oligarchs - the steep businessmen and various analysts are not active sexual partners, because their brain is constantly packed with deals, stock quotes, dollar collapse, the Dow Jones, etc. This is my personal theory, no matter what do not pretend, but for myself I think that it would be good that the man was closer to nature, чтоли, with healthy instinktamit.
I met the man of my dreams. We have been together for 5 years - we really do not live together, we have no general way of life, but we communicate very closely every day.
I desire for it either - with or without epilation, the makeup or without it, sleepy, cheerful, patient, tear-stained ... In my presence he is not looking at other women. They are not there for him - he did not take his eyes off me. I fall asleep with his "good night, my love" and wake up with "good morning, desirable.
Perhaps it is not right - measure the ratio of men to their degree of its desirability. I do not know how to. But it is important. This gives me confidence in her feminine attractiveness. The need to feel like a woman for me - how to breathe.
Expressed my thoughts, of course, not new. Psychologist Nekrasov wrote, that the initial impetus must come from men and the woman he picks up and creates a space of love. And that requires a balanced functioning of the Trinity - Eros, mind and soul.
I was deprived of this impulse. Maybe not felt it, and not words. I do not know. But harmony was not.
Of course, now is the place to be some sort of imbalance - women have become more active and aggressive. And this man's features. Accordingly, the man becomes feminine traits, and as a consequence, what is beginning to behave like a woman - sculpts otmazy that headache, mike and capricious.
Probably I should command a smaller man in life, so he stretched his wings ...
Harmony of sexual relations
Telegony. Recently published online article on this phenomenon has not left indifferent many. The essence of the article is that scientists have proved that a sexual partner a woman sends her children to their quality, although not physiologically father. Examples of how the white women who had once sex with representatives of the black race, after many years of black children were born.
The author warns the young men and women from non-marital sexual relations, citing the fact that the first man leaves all his life an indelible mark in the energy body of a woman. These facts have disturbed many. It turns out that have left their mark first sexual relationship, and many fathers raising children, which for many is a "not them".
Author's arguments make a valid and convincing. But his opinion was at odds with the opinion of many others, no less authoritative sages and teachers, who say that human sexuality - the greatest vitality. Its suppression leads to distortions in the mind, problems, diseases.
What should be done, we ask ourselves? Keep the honor in his youth, avoiding premarital sexual relations, as advised by the article and start a family and have children from a single loved one? Maybe it is - the ideal sought by many women. And what about the ensuing maturity of fourteen and their awakening sexual desires? It's no secret that crushed and banned before the wedding, the expression of sexuality responds rest of his life many problems, complexes and even tragedies. How to understand these issues? Who is right?
It is safe to say that the question of the role of sexual energy in a person's life now belongs to a number of the least studied, despite the huge amount of literature, research psychologists, open and, more recently published ancient knowledge, including the Eastern, Vedic ...
In society there is a very wide range of different approaches to the issue of sexuality. In the USSR was no sex. In the West, held a succession of sexual revolution. None of the spiritual teacher turned his attention to this issue, but among them there is no unity. Some say that sex needed only for the conception of the child (V. Sinelnikov, Anastasia in the books of Maigret). Others consider the sexual energy and sex, as a profound interaction between man and woman, and without him not see the spiritual path of development rights (Osho, Drunvalo, Manteca Chia, tantric direction).
In all there are grains of truth. Wisdom is to see it. Let us search!
"Sex only for conception." The truth of this assertion is that birth-extraordinary act of creation of men and women. Sexual energy - the force that moves them at this moment. Indeed, their thoughts at this moment must be pure, and aimed at the creation of a new life, new universe, no more and no less!
"All diseases of the nerves. And all the nerves of the suppression of sexual energy. And this is also true. Sexual energy - basic human energy, the energy of life. Ignoring and suppressing it does not allow a person to develop harmoniously. Sexuality should be developed as an integral part of man.
What is - a man? Understanding man as a creature of God, gives a new look at the use of sexual energy. Man is divine by nature. Man comes to Earth to be happy, in order to create on earth a happy joyful life. To do this, his soul finds perfect perfect body. For this reason a man needs. Man is created in the image and likeness of God. Man and woman to create life, creating a new universe in collaboration with each other. Inside trinity person - mind, heart, Eros (the body) Divine!
Abandoning any part of themselves, for example, sexual energy, a man renounces the divine part of himself. Unconsciously exploiting some part of himself, a man also moving away from his divinity.
Harmony started all rights, the internal harmony of the Trinity rights - is the way a happy harmonious development. Sexual bias, excess, perversion - a result far from harmonious development of the internal trinity of man and society.
To date, we have created a society in which human mind. Um equated the body of the instrument receiving pleasure, and tends to use it. In addition to the unreasonable waste of sexual energy, is expressed in an unreasonable power, overloads, workaholism ... His divine immortal human body uses cruel, receiving as a consequence of disease and suffering. Awareness about the scourge of this approach and gives rise to the principle of many spiritual people "Sex - only for conception.
But the suppression of sexuality does not lead to harmony. Sexual energy - the energy of life. Refusal of it, squeezing it, makes a man incapable of action. A well-known spiritual teacher Osho, wrote about the suppression of sexual energy ... "At a certain age, sex is important - not because you're doing it important, it is not something that comes from you, it happens. At the age of 14 years or so, suddenly flooded with the energy of sex. Do you think sex, you sing sex, you go have sex - everything becomes sexual. It happens. This is natural. " "What's wrong with sex before marriage? In fact, most problems arise because of marriage, that does not allow sex before marriage. There are primitive tribes that are much more humane, natural, where premarital sex is supported by society, encouraged, because it takes time to learn. At fourteen years old girl becomes sexually mature at eighteen boy becomes sexually mature. Sex before marriage - is one of the most important issues that should solve the human society. The girl will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 14 years, and the boy will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 18 years. When nature reaches the top, you are stopping them. By that time, as a boy 30 years old, you allow him to marry. His sexuality is already on the decline. His vitality is moving downhill, he loses interest. Biologically he is already too late. It is because of this there is so many problems in marriage - because both partners have missed their climactic hours, and those climactic hours were a time when they could learn what an orgasm. Before you choose a partner for life, you have to give a chance to get acquainted with all the women who are available to all men. All over the world can see that he had never been successful or marriages of convenience, not marriages of love. And the main reason is that in both cases, the couples had no experience, and the couple was not given the freedom to choose the right person. There is no other way to find the right person, except by experiment.
What can we do now, young people who feel the awakening of the energies of Eros? How to be their parents?
Truth is everything. To deny the body, the energy of Eros at the time of awakening - is unwise. They will make themselves known. Teach young people with love and respect to your body, your sex, the opposite sex - that way, and the task. Hypocritical silence on issues of sex in the family - the cause of many problems in life and destiny.
I do not know a single person, educated in the Soviet Union, with which the parents during and competently conducted a conversation about "where children come from. In most cases, parents in every way to avoid on this, and children receive information from the "educated" older guys. The greatest disappointment in the child's life - to learn that his parents, who, undoubtedly, the best and the most important people in the world, also to do it. And his own existence proof of this! Of course, the outdoor "school of life" presents sex as something dirty. And a child and considers himself to this point, dirty, and their sexual organs, and other children and parents. Probably, this is - "loss of innocence." Familiar, comfortable, intuitive world of the child to fall out of this. And at that moment a child is under the influence of pain and fear may decide "not to engage in this never," or "if he certainly needed, it will be for children, or, conversely, there is a morbid fascination and excitement ... and the consequences of children's decisions at the time of pain and fear affect human life ... We never live with that.
So, with your child about sex you should say. And with no position to talk about? Cautioning against sex before marriage, or encouraging the first experiments and explaining the principles of contraception?
Better education - education for their example. If an adult committed to the harmonious development of his own, receives and recognizes the importance of all its parts, and the child, he would deliver a harmonious understanding.
The human body is beautiful and divine. Sexual energy - the energy of love and energy of life. Harmonious body perfectly, it is - the temple of the soul. Body and other parts of the human one. Submit a grown-up child this way, by creating it in their own lives - that is the problem parent. Learning to love yourself, love between men and women see the beauty in everything and be able to admire the perfection of the body is important for adult and maturing.
Recognize the existence of subtle bodies of man and their relationship with the physical body, it is - is the key to harmonious development. Indeed, during sexual intercourse man and woman exchange energy and leave the memory and traces of the first contact in their thin bodies. But the same should be left in our bodies all manifestations of life - not only sexual intercourse, but the first kiss and the first confession of love, and first love. And everything that happens the first time with us, and everything that happens! All that a person sees, hears, speaks, breathes than what he was eating - this is the man. The world is one! And why it is so important all manifestations of life, and harmony in all manifestations of life - culture of life: sex, food, recreation, work. Our world - it's us.
A young man or woman who grew up with this understanding of peace and life, with love and care related to her, his body, his heart and mind, and also to another person. And especially - to whom to love there, and who will be sent first erotic feelings. If young people have adopted from their parents a sense of harmony and unity of the world, and communicate them to the greatest awareness and harmony. And their first kiss will be filled with the highest vibrations, subtle feelings of enthusiasm and love. And the first sexual contact will be blessed with love. Of course, they will leave an indelible mark on the soul and the body of each other, but can it be called "bad"? The quality of this trail will depend on the state in which there were lovers. And if the state was high, then the trail will be beautiful. And let it remain in the body and the memory of wonderful memories!
They may decide to create a couple and family. And perhaps, they will not. People meet to resolve their problems, to become through this experience better and happier. And perhaps, in these tasks are not part of a family. And the young men parted. But they parted with a feeling of great gratitude to each other, showing love in the world. And they come into a new relationship enriched and happier. And from this new relationship will benefit.
Everything in life should grow and develop. And the new relationship, of course, must be an even higher level of playing and understanding. For harmonious person possible! And then the new relationship will stand on the foundation of the past, the wonderful and happy.
And. Love, if it is really love, in all its manifestations, including sexual relations, enhances human, makes it more harmonious. Negative "footprint" in the human body energy reserves sexual contact in which there was no love. This can happen, and often happens in marriage when a man and a woman come into the proximity is not from a desire to share love with each other, and "fulfilling conjugal duty", for example. If such contact occurred, it must be time to love rounded this negative experience ...
Not possible "prescription", applicable always and for all. There are no two identical snowflakes in the world, and no two identical fates. And each person decides for itself. Express Yourself himself, feeling other people's world, treating everything with love and harmonious people correctly decide that when he started a sexual relationship with someone like ... I will be happy! And make happy their half and the world!
But boys and girls are not harmonious, it may be objected to. They say youth is stupid, hormones and emotions are sweeping, the young could easily "mess of things" ... Therefore the "break" young people "wood" that they raised no harmonious adults. Not who fed them the wisdom, love, a sense of harmony. Out there - to become a happy and harmonious for all of us - adults, and most adults, that does not convey the pain and suffering of the younger generation, and love, joy and harmony. Honestly look at yourself, your life, to understand what moved us, as we grew up ... Are we now men and women, or have not yet been realized and have not taken themselves in those roles? Create a harmonious life today, here and now, frankly discuss their successes and mistakes with children, so that they learn them. And then they get the chance to enter adult life adult male and adult female.
Article about Telegony, which we mentioned at the beginning, important and necessary to ensure that people knew about this side of sexual relations, and to take responsible and informed decision. Now available to all knowledge, including how to clean, "pereprozhit" past, seeing it as disharmony. After all there at once, all the same. Also restores now, and knowledge about the age of male and female devotion which our ancestors possessed. On the harmony in sexual relations written many books and courses are ... It would be a desire to grow, to do themselves, their happy life, the lives of their loved ones, your family, his people, his country, his planet!
Humanity has already outgrown all the prohibitions and restrictions are created by the same. We live in a new era for new laws, creating a new, a new society, new culture. Love, happiness and harmony - that the laws of modern times. The unity of all human development - the most important values. We will make your perfect today and now, showing the best qualities in the world, while not denying anything, and our children will grow up happy and harmonious. And will their decisions, and continue this wonderful life!
We all love and harmony!
The author warns the young men and women from non-marital sexual relations, citing the fact that the first man leaves all his life an indelible mark in the energy body of a woman. These facts have disturbed many. It turns out that have left their mark first sexual relationship, and many fathers raising children, which for many is a "not them".
Author's arguments make a valid and convincing. But his opinion was at odds with the opinion of many others, no less authoritative sages and teachers, who say that human sexuality - the greatest vitality. Its suppression leads to distortions in the mind, problems, diseases.
What should be done, we ask ourselves? Keep the honor in his youth, avoiding premarital sexual relations, as advised by the article and start a family and have children from a single loved one? Maybe it is - the ideal sought by many women. And what about the ensuing maturity of fourteen and their awakening sexual desires? It's no secret that crushed and banned before the wedding, the expression of sexuality responds rest of his life many problems, complexes and even tragedies. How to understand these issues? Who is right?
It is safe to say that the question of the role of sexual energy in a person's life now belongs to a number of the least studied, despite the huge amount of literature, research psychologists, open and, more recently published ancient knowledge, including the Eastern, Vedic ...
In society there is a very wide range of different approaches to the issue of sexuality. In the USSR was no sex. In the West, held a succession of sexual revolution. None of the spiritual teacher turned his attention to this issue, but among them there is no unity. Some say that sex needed only for the conception of the child (V. Sinelnikov, Anastasia in the books of Maigret). Others consider the sexual energy and sex, as a profound interaction between man and woman, and without him not see the spiritual path of development rights (Osho, Drunvalo, Manteca Chia, tantric direction).
In all there are grains of truth. Wisdom is to see it. Let us search!
"Sex only for conception." The truth of this assertion is that birth-extraordinary act of creation of men and women. Sexual energy - the force that moves them at this moment. Indeed, their thoughts at this moment must be pure, and aimed at the creation of a new life, new universe, no more and no less!
"All diseases of the nerves. And all the nerves of the suppression of sexual energy. And this is also true. Sexual energy - basic human energy, the energy of life. Ignoring and suppressing it does not allow a person to develop harmoniously. Sexuality should be developed as an integral part of man.
What is - a man? Understanding man as a creature of God, gives a new look at the use of sexual energy. Man is divine by nature. Man comes to Earth to be happy, in order to create on earth a happy joyful life. To do this, his soul finds perfect perfect body. For this reason a man needs. Man is created in the image and likeness of God. Man and woman to create life, creating a new universe in collaboration with each other. Inside trinity person - mind, heart, Eros (the body) Divine!
Abandoning any part of themselves, for example, sexual energy, a man renounces the divine part of himself. Unconsciously exploiting some part of himself, a man also moving away from his divinity.
Harmony started all rights, the internal harmony of the Trinity rights - is the way a happy harmonious development. Sexual bias, excess, perversion - a result far from harmonious development of the internal trinity of man and society.
To date, we have created a society in which human mind. Um equated the body of the instrument receiving pleasure, and tends to use it. In addition to the unreasonable waste of sexual energy, is expressed in an unreasonable power, overloads, workaholism ... His divine immortal human body uses cruel, receiving as a consequence of disease and suffering. Awareness about the scourge of this approach and gives rise to the principle of many spiritual people "Sex - only for conception.
But the suppression of sexuality does not lead to harmony. Sexual energy - the energy of life. Refusal of it, squeezing it, makes a man incapable of action. A well-known spiritual teacher Osho, wrote about the suppression of sexual energy ... "At a certain age, sex is important - not because you're doing it important, it is not something that comes from you, it happens. At the age of 14 years or so, suddenly flooded with the energy of sex. Do you think sex, you sing sex, you go have sex - everything becomes sexual. It happens. This is natural. " "What's wrong with sex before marriage? In fact, most problems arise because of marriage, that does not allow sex before marriage. There are primitive tribes that are much more humane, natural, where premarital sex is supported by society, encouraged, because it takes time to learn. At fourteen years old girl becomes sexually mature at eighteen boy becomes sexually mature. Sex before marriage - is one of the most important issues that should solve the human society. The girl will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 14 years, and the boy will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 18 years. When nature reaches the top, you are stopping them. By that time, as a boy 30 years old, you allow him to marry. His sexuality is already on the decline. His vitality is moving downhill, he loses interest. Biologically he is already too late. It is because of this there is so many problems in marriage - because both partners have missed their climactic hours, and those climactic hours were a time when they could learn what an orgasm. Before you choose a partner for life, you have to give a chance to get acquainted with all the women who are available to all men. All over the world can see that he had never been successful or marriages of convenience, not marriages of love. And the main reason is that in both cases, the couples had no experience, and the couple was not given the freedom to choose the right person. There is no other way to find the right person, except by experiment.
What can we do now, young people who feel the awakening of the energies of Eros? How to be their parents?
Truth is everything. To deny the body, the energy of Eros at the time of awakening - is unwise. They will make themselves known. Teach young people with love and respect to your body, your sex, the opposite sex - that way, and the task. Hypocritical silence on issues of sex in the family - the cause of many problems in life and destiny.
I do not know a single person, educated in the Soviet Union, with which the parents during and competently conducted a conversation about "where children come from. In most cases, parents in every way to avoid on this, and children receive information from the "educated" older guys. The greatest disappointment in the child's life - to learn that his parents, who, undoubtedly, the best and the most important people in the world, also to do it. And his own existence proof of this! Of course, the outdoor "school of life" presents sex as something dirty. And a child and considers himself to this point, dirty, and their sexual organs, and other children and parents. Probably, this is - "loss of innocence." Familiar, comfortable, intuitive world of the child to fall out of this. And at that moment a child is under the influence of pain and fear may decide "not to engage in this never," or "if he certainly needed, it will be for children, or, conversely, there is a morbid fascination and excitement ... and the consequences of children's decisions at the time of pain and fear affect human life ... We never live with that.
So, with your child about sex you should say. And with no position to talk about? Cautioning against sex before marriage, or encouraging the first experiments and explaining the principles of contraception?
Better education - education for their example. If an adult committed to the harmonious development of his own, receives and recognizes the importance of all its parts, and the child, he would deliver a harmonious understanding.
The human body is beautiful and divine. Sexual energy - the energy of love and energy of life. Harmonious body perfectly, it is - the temple of the soul. Body and other parts of the human one. Submit a grown-up child this way, by creating it in their own lives - that is the problem parent. Learning to love yourself, love between men and women see the beauty in everything and be able to admire the perfection of the body is important for adult and maturing.
Recognize the existence of subtle bodies of man and their relationship with the physical body, it is - is the key to harmonious development. Indeed, during sexual intercourse man and woman exchange energy and leave the memory and traces of the first contact in their thin bodies. But the same should be left in our bodies all manifestations of life - not only sexual intercourse, but the first kiss and the first confession of love, and first love. And everything that happens the first time with us, and everything that happens! All that a person sees, hears, speaks, breathes than what he was eating - this is the man. The world is one! And why it is so important all manifestations of life, and harmony in all manifestations of life - culture of life: sex, food, recreation, work. Our world - it's us.
A young man or woman who grew up with this understanding of peace and life, with love and care related to her, his body, his heart and mind, and also to another person. And especially - to whom to love there, and who will be sent first erotic feelings. If young people have adopted from their parents a sense of harmony and unity of the world, and communicate them to the greatest awareness and harmony. And their first kiss will be filled with the highest vibrations, subtle feelings of enthusiasm and love. And the first sexual contact will be blessed with love. Of course, they will leave an indelible mark on the soul and the body of each other, but can it be called "bad"? The quality of this trail will depend on the state in which there were lovers. And if the state was high, then the trail will be beautiful. And let it remain in the body and the memory of wonderful memories!
They may decide to create a couple and family. And perhaps, they will not. People meet to resolve their problems, to become through this experience better and happier. And perhaps, in these tasks are not part of a family. And the young men parted. But they parted with a feeling of great gratitude to each other, showing love in the world. And they come into a new relationship enriched and happier. And from this new relationship will benefit.
Everything in life should grow and develop. And the new relationship, of course, must be an even higher level of playing and understanding. For harmonious person possible! And then the new relationship will stand on the foundation of the past, the wonderful and happy.
And. Love, if it is really love, in all its manifestations, including sexual relations, enhances human, makes it more harmonious. Negative "footprint" in the human body energy reserves sexual contact in which there was no love. This can happen, and often happens in marriage when a man and a woman come into the proximity is not from a desire to share love with each other, and "fulfilling conjugal duty", for example. If such contact occurred, it must be time to love rounded this negative experience ...
Not possible "prescription", applicable always and for all. There are no two identical snowflakes in the world, and no two identical fates. And each person decides for itself. Express Yourself himself, feeling other people's world, treating everything with love and harmonious people correctly decide that when he started a sexual relationship with someone like ... I will be happy! And make happy their half and the world!
But boys and girls are not harmonious, it may be objected to. They say youth is stupid, hormones and emotions are sweeping, the young could easily "mess of things" ... Therefore the "break" young people "wood" that they raised no harmonious adults. Not who fed them the wisdom, love, a sense of harmony. Out there - to become a happy and harmonious for all of us - adults, and most adults, that does not convey the pain and suffering of the younger generation, and love, joy and harmony. Honestly look at yourself, your life, to understand what moved us, as we grew up ... Are we now men and women, or have not yet been realized and have not taken themselves in those roles? Create a harmonious life today, here and now, frankly discuss their successes and mistakes with children, so that they learn them. And then they get the chance to enter adult life adult male and adult female.
Article about Telegony, which we mentioned at the beginning, important and necessary to ensure that people knew about this side of sexual relations, and to take responsible and informed decision. Now available to all knowledge, including how to clean, "pereprozhit" past, seeing it as disharmony. After all there at once, all the same. Also restores now, and knowledge about the age of male and female devotion which our ancestors possessed. On the harmony in sexual relations written many books and courses are ... It would be a desire to grow, to do themselves, their happy life, the lives of their loved ones, your family, his people, his country, his planet!
Humanity has already outgrown all the prohibitions and restrictions are created by the same. We live in a new era for new laws, creating a new, a new society, new culture. Love, happiness and harmony - that the laws of modern times. The unity of all human development - the most important values. We will make your perfect today and now, showing the best qualities in the world, while not denying anything, and our children will grow up happy and harmonious. And will their decisions, and continue this wonderful life!
We all love and harmony!
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
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