Harmony of sexual relations

Telegony. Recently published online article on this phenomenon has not left indifferent many. The essence of the article is that scientists have proved that a sexual partner a woman sends her children to their quality, although not physiologically father. Examples of how the white women who had once sex with representatives of the black race, after many years of black children were born.



The author warns the young men and women from non-marital sexual relations, citing the fact that the first man leaves all his life an indelible mark in the energy body of a woman. These facts have disturbed many. It turns out that have left their mark first sexual relationship, and many fathers raising children, which for many is a "not them".



Author's arguments make a valid and convincing. But his opinion was at odds with the opinion of many others, no less authoritative sages and teachers, who say that human sexuality - the greatest vitality. Its suppression leads to distortions in the mind, problems, diseases.



What should be done, we ask ourselves? Keep the honor in his youth, avoiding premarital sexual relations, as advised by the article and start a family and have children from a single loved one? Maybe it is - the ideal sought by many women. And what about the ensuing maturity of fourteen and their awakening sexual desires? It's no secret that crushed and banned before the wedding, the expression of sexuality responds rest of his life many problems, complexes and even tragedies. How to understand these issues? Who is right?



It is safe to say that the question of the role of sexual energy in a person's life now belongs to a number of the least studied, despite the huge amount of literature, research psychologists, open and, more recently published ancient knowledge, including the Eastern, Vedic ...



In society there is a very wide range of different approaches to the issue of sexuality. In the USSR was no sex. In the West, held a succession of sexual revolution. None of the spiritual teacher turned his attention to this issue, but among them there is no unity. Some say that sex needed only for the conception of the child (V. Sinelnikov, Anastasia in the books of Maigret). Others consider the sexual energy and sex, as a profound interaction between man and woman, and without him not see the spiritual path of development rights (Osho, Drunvalo, Manteca Chia, tantric direction).



In all there are grains of truth. Wisdom is to see it. Let us search!



"Sex only for conception." The truth of this assertion is that birth-extraordinary act of creation of men and women. Sexual energy - the force that moves them at this moment. Indeed, their thoughts at this moment must be pure, and aimed at the creation of a new life, new universe, no more and no less!



"All diseases of the nerves. And all the nerves of the suppression of sexual energy. And this is also true. Sexual energy - basic human energy, the energy of life. Ignoring and suppressing it does not allow a person to develop harmoniously. Sexuality should be developed as an integral part of man.



What is - a man? Understanding man as a creature of God, gives a new look at the use of sexual energy. Man is divine by nature. Man comes to Earth to be happy, in order to create on earth a happy joyful life. To do this, his soul finds perfect perfect body. For this reason a man needs. Man is created in the image and likeness of God. Man and woman to create life, creating a new universe in collaboration with each other. Inside trinity person - mind, heart, Eros (the body) Divine!



Abandoning any part of themselves, for example, sexual energy, a man renounces the divine part of himself. Unconsciously exploiting some part of himself, a man also moving away from his divinity.



Harmony started all rights, the internal harmony of the Trinity rights - is the way a happy harmonious development. Sexual bias, excess, perversion - a result far from harmonious development of the internal trinity of man and society.

To date, we have created a society in which human mind. Um equated the body of the instrument receiving pleasure, and tends to use it. In addition to the unreasonable waste of sexual energy, is expressed in an unreasonable power, overloads, workaholism ... His divine immortal human body uses cruel, receiving as a consequence of disease and suffering. Awareness about the scourge of this approach and gives rise to the principle of many spiritual people "Sex - only for conception.



But the suppression of sexuality does not lead to harmony. Sexual energy - the energy of life. Refusal of it, squeezing it, makes a man incapable of action. A well-known spiritual teacher Osho, wrote about the suppression of sexual energy ... "At a certain age, sex is important - not because you're doing it important, it is not something that comes from you, it happens. At the age of 14 years or so, suddenly flooded with the energy of sex. Do you think sex, you sing sex, you go have sex - everything becomes sexual. It happens. This is natural. " "What's wrong with sex before marriage? In fact, most problems arise because of marriage, that does not allow sex before marriage. There are primitive tribes that are much more humane, natural, where premarital sex is supported by society, encouraged, because it takes time to learn. At fourteen years old girl becomes sexually mature at eighteen boy becomes sexually mature. Sex before marriage - is one of the most important issues that should solve the human society. The girl will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 14 years, and the boy will never be more sexually alive than it was at the age of 18 years. When nature reaches the top, you are stopping them. By that time, as a boy 30 years old, you allow him to marry. His sexuality is already on the decline. His vitality is moving downhill, he loses interest. Biologically he is already too late. It is because of this there is so many problems in marriage - because both partners have missed their climactic hours, and those climactic hours were a time when they could learn what an orgasm. Before you choose a partner for life, you have to give a chance to get acquainted with all the women who are available to all men. All over the world can see that he had never been successful or marriages of convenience, not marriages of love. And the main reason is that in both cases, the couples had no experience, and the couple was not given the freedom to choose the right person. There is no other way to find the right person, except by experiment.



What can we do now, young people who feel the awakening of the energies of Eros? How to be their parents?



Truth is everything. To deny the body, the energy of Eros at the time of awakening - is unwise. They will make themselves known. Teach young people with love and respect to your body, your sex, the opposite sex - that way, and the task. Hypocritical silence on issues of sex in the family - the cause of many problems in life and destiny.



I do not know a single person, educated in the Soviet Union, with which the parents during and competently conducted a conversation about "where children come from. In most cases, parents in every way to avoid on this, and children receive information from the "educated" older guys. The greatest disappointment in the child's life - to learn that his parents, who, undoubtedly, the best and the most important people in the world, also to do it. And his own existence proof of this! Of course, the outdoor "school of life" presents sex as something dirty. And a child and considers himself to this point, dirty, and their sexual organs, and other children and parents. Probably, this is - "loss of innocence." Familiar, comfortable, intuitive world of the child to fall out of this. And at that moment a child is under the influence of pain and fear may decide "not to engage in this never," or "if he certainly needed, it will be for children, or, conversely, there is a morbid fascination and excitement ... and the consequences of children's decisions at the time of pain and fear affect human life ... We never live with that.



So, with your child about sex you should say. And with no position to talk about? Cautioning against sex before marriage, or encouraging the first experiments and explaining the principles of contraception?

Better education - education for their example. If an adult committed to the harmonious development of his own, receives and recognizes the importance of all its parts, and the child, he would deliver a harmonious understanding.



The human body is beautiful and divine. Sexual energy - the energy of love and energy of life. Harmonious body perfectly, it is - the temple of the soul. Body and other parts of the human one. Submit a grown-up child this way, by creating it in their own lives - that is the problem parent. Learning to love yourself, love between men and women see the beauty in everything and be able to admire the perfection of the body is important for adult and maturing.



Recognize the existence of subtle bodies of man and their relationship with the physical body, it is - is the key to harmonious development. Indeed, during sexual intercourse man and woman exchange energy and leave the memory and traces of the first contact in their thin bodies. But the same should be left in our bodies all manifestations of life - not only sexual intercourse, but the first kiss and the first confession of love, and first love. And everything that happens the first time with us, and everything that happens! All that a person sees, hears, speaks, breathes than what he was eating - this is the man. The world is one! And why it is so important all manifestations of life, and harmony in all manifestations of life - culture of life: sex, food, recreation, work. Our world - it's us.



A young man or woman who grew up with this understanding of peace and life, with love and care related to her, his body, his heart and mind, and also to another person. And especially - to whom to love there, and who will be sent first erotic feelings. If young people have adopted from their parents a sense of harmony and unity of the world, and communicate them to the greatest awareness and harmony. And their first kiss will be filled with the highest vibrations, subtle feelings of enthusiasm and love. And the first sexual contact will be blessed with love. Of course, they will leave an indelible mark on the soul and the body of each other, but can it be called "bad"? The quality of this trail will depend on the state in which there were lovers. And if the state was high, then the trail will be beautiful. And let it remain in the body and the memory of wonderful memories!



They may decide to create a couple and family. And perhaps, they will not. People meet to resolve their problems, to become through this experience better and happier. And perhaps, in these tasks are not part of a family. And the young men parted. But they parted with a feeling of great gratitude to each other, showing love in the world. And they come into a new relationship enriched and happier. And from this new relationship will benefit.



Everything in life should grow and develop. And the new relationship, of course, must be an even higher level of playing and understanding. For harmonious person possible! And then the new relationship will stand on the foundation of the past, the wonderful and happy.



And. Love, if it is really love, in all its manifestations, including sexual relations, enhances human, makes it more harmonious. Negative "footprint" in the human body energy reserves sexual contact in which there was no love. This can happen, and often happens in marriage when a man and a woman come into the proximity is not from a desire to share love with each other, and "fulfilling conjugal duty", for example. If such contact occurred, it must be time to love rounded this negative experience ...



Not possible "prescription", applicable always and for all. There are no two identical snowflakes in the world, and no two identical fates. And each person decides for itself. Express Yourself himself, feeling other people's world, treating everything with love and harmonious people correctly decide that when he started a sexual relationship with someone like ... I will be happy! And make happy their half and the world!



But boys and girls are not harmonious, it may be objected to. They say youth is stupid, hormones and emotions are sweeping, the young could easily "mess of things" ... Therefore the "break" young people "wood" that they raised no harmonious adults. Not who fed them the wisdom, love, a sense of harmony. Out there - to become a happy and harmonious for all of us - adults, and most adults, that does not convey the pain and suffering of the younger generation, and love, joy and harmony. Honestly look at yourself, your life, to understand what moved us, as we grew up ... Are we now men and women, or have not yet been realized and have not taken themselves in those roles? Create a harmonious life today, here and now, frankly discuss their successes and mistakes with children, so that they learn them. And then they get the chance to enter adult life adult male and adult female.



Article about Telegony, which we mentioned at the beginning, important and necessary to ensure that people knew about this side of sexual relations, and to take responsible and informed decision. Now available to all knowledge, including how to clean, "pereprozhit" past, seeing it as disharmony. After all there at once, all the same. Also restores now, and knowledge about the age of male and female devotion which our ancestors possessed. On the harmony in sexual relations written many books and courses are ... It would be a desire to grow, to do themselves, their happy life, the lives of their loved ones, your family, his people, his country, his planet!



Humanity has already outgrown all the prohibitions and restrictions are created by the same. We live in a new era for new laws, creating a new, a new society, new culture. Love, happiness and harmony - that the laws of modern times. The unity of all human development - the most important values. We will make your perfect today and now, showing the best qualities in the world, while not denying anything, and our children will grow up happy and harmonious. And will their decisions, and continue this wonderful life!



We all love and harmony!